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Dec. 2, 2022

Life Lessons Of A Daughter Part I

I am joined with one of my daughters (Brittany Payne) to discuss some of the challenges and experiences that she has had over the years. She talks about her life, our family and even sleeping in her car and being homeless at ...

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Nov. 25, 2022

Create vs Preserve Value

Ask yourself these three questions? 1. What is the inherent value that women have that men don’t? 2. What makes a man valuable to a woman? 3. What makes a woman valuable to a man? Well Join Bazz and Ash on this podcast as the...

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Nov. 5, 2022

What's Your Price For Submission?

Believe it or not, there is a cost associated with being in a relationship. Not a financial cost, but a submission cost. What sort of price does it take to be submissive to your mate? We all have one, what's yours? Listen in....

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July 8, 2022

Who's There For Me

Sometimes we find ourselves giving so much to everyone else (i.e our family, friends, and loved ones), but we have to ask ourselves the question..."Who's there for me?" Do we really have the kind of relationships with people ...

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June 23, 2022

The Housing Crisis Part 2 - Seller Beware

Listen in on Part 2 of the Afforable Housing Crisis podcast. On this show we talk about the challenges we face when selling our homes with: Depersonalizing your home - removing photos, cultural items, etc. to make the sale. W...

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June 4, 2022

The Afforable Housing Crisis

Is there a housing crisis? Is the major part of this issue is the supply is rapidly shrinking? Are real estate agents experiencing the market to be “unhealthy and very challenging”? Home Prices Increases - Since the price of ...

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May 30, 2022

Death of a High Value Man...RIP Kevin Samuels

Just recently (May 7th 2022) we lost YouTube personality "Kevin Samuels". He was 57 years old. He was unique in his own right, because he was an advocate for the black family and was very blunt on giving lifestyle advice to...

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April 3, 2022

Do You Have The "Will" To Control Your Temper?

In March 2022 at the 94th annual academy awards, Will Smith got upset with Chris Rock by when he (Chris) made a "GI Jane 2" joke about his (Will) wife Jada. Will Smith was laughing at first until he saw the facial expression ...

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Feb. 26, 2022

Men Self Care

Superbowl 2022 weekend the fellas and I just doing our normal annual Orlando trip as we have done in the past. It's a great opportunity for us to fellowship, hang out, laugh, smoke cigars, drink and little and just practice "...

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Feb. 6, 2022

Audible of Life

What is an Audible? An audible is when a change is made from the original plan. In life, we should have the ability to adapt or change a plan on the fly if needed. For you football fans out there – when a QB comes to the lin...

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Jan. 24, 2022

Iceberg Success

In this podcast, I am joined with my dear friend Tanisha Harris as we discuss the subject " Iceberg Success ". Well simply put...the “Iceberg Theory of Success” helps us to realize that every famous or extraordinary successfu...

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Jan. 2, 2022

Relationships, a Luxury or Necessity?

Let’s Talk about Relationships. This has a significant impact on American culture. Relationships drive a billion-dollar retail industry (holidays, birthdays – and the big one Valentine’s Day). But are relationships a necessit...

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Nov. 21, 2021

Marry Before You Carry

Listen in as Joe Dilla (JD) and myself (Bazz) - speak on the subject of " Marry Before You Carry " The data doesn't lie... Over the last few decades, marriage has been a declining institution among all Americans and this decl...

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Sept. 30, 2021

Honoring Our Dad "John A. Shabazz"

Shortly after my mom passed on Oct 30, 2019, I lost my dad almost exactly 8 months later on July 29, 2020. He is missed and loved by many! My father was an honorable man of principle and he created a legacy for our family by...

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Sept. 23, 2021

The Real Truth Behind Your SMV

The Real Truth Behind Your SMV (Sexual Market Place Value). When you go to an auto dealer to purchase a car – what are some of the features you look for when researching? Most people look for the Year, make, model, mileage, ...

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Aug. 14, 2021

Is Your Price Tag Too High?

In this world we live in everyone has a value. Some people place value on their career, items, experiences but not the same value on family. In this podcast, I ask my guests the million-dollar question "Is Your Price Tag Too ...

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July 26, 2021

The Impact of Critical Race Theory

What is it? – Critical Race Theory is an academic concept that’s more than 40 years old. The core idea is that race is a social construct and that racism is not just a product of individual bias or prejudice, but is also sys...

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July 10, 2021

Are You Loved Enough?

First Corinthians 13:4-7 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delig...

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July 8, 2021

You Don't Have The Right To Discipline My Child

Legally just because you marry someone does not mean you have any legal rights to the child immediately upon that marriage… You can provide for them. Feed them. Clothe them. Love them as your own. Provide Health and Dental Co...

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June 3, 2021

Disrespectful and Ungrateful Children

Children are a blessing. They bring joy, love, value, and even education to our lives. We want to give them the best, we want them to not make the same mistakes we did growing up. So, we try to help them navigate life – helpi...

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May 25, 2021

Men on Fire Series Part 3: What's Your Motivation To Keep Us Happy?

This is the final episode of the Men of Fire Series - Part 3: What's Your Motivation To Keep Us Happy ? This episode is also in video format on YouTube at: https://youtu.be/4YA836lNepc In the beginning, we focus so much of ou...

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May 5, 2021

Men on Fire Series Part 2: Defining a High-Value Man

This is Part 2 of 3 of our Men of Fire Series titled: Defining a High-Value Man Most women want a good quality man, but does that include the traits of an HVM? Everyone's opinion is different and could be quite subjective. Ne...

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April 28, 2021

Men on Fire Series Part 1: What Am I Asking A Man To Do?

Welcome to part one of a three-part series titled - Men on Fire: What Am I Asking A Man To do? This episode is also on YouTube - https://youtu.be/UUdICdnI_PI Ladies think about that for a second. Men are considered to be the ...

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March 31, 2021

Shining In The Background

This is Part III which will conclude our “ cheating podcast series ". Make sure you check out the previous two episodes ( 34 - Why Do People Cheat In Relationships & 35 - Sex, Sandwiches, and Silence). So what does " Shining ...

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