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March 31, 2021

Shining In The Background

Shining In The Background

This is Part III which will conclude our “cheating podcast series". Make sure you check out the previous two episodes (34 - Why Do People Cheat In Relationships & 35 - Sex, Sandwiches, and Silence).

So what does "Shining In The Background” mean – simply put it's main chick vs side chick.

The main chick is more visible to the public, official, and has priority in the relationship, but the side chick is always "shining in the background".

Most men don't, and some men do have side chicks, why? What is the benefit of having a woman on the side? Is it greed? Is it conquering the challenge? Or is it because the side chick fills a void that's missing from the relationship? Well, listen in as I have a conversation with my guests (Tonia, Joe, and Tamika) on this topic.

Also, on this episode, I have my first co-host (Tamika from the Hustle Goddess Blog Site) and she leads the discussion on the current controversy around Derrick Jaxn and the negative impact he's made on himself, and the disappointment of his fan base with the current actions of his cheating behavior.